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Have you ever noticed how you only get what you want when you don’t want like? Like with relationships, for example. When you’re not looking, don’t have the time, or aren’t ready to fall in love, suddenly Mr. and Ms. Right rears his or her gorgeous head. Or, on the flip side, when you’re lonely, pathetically desperate, and longing for love, Cupid is nowhere to be found. If that’s you, one surefire way to bring love into your life is to start keeping track of your personal expenses. No, seriously.

Everyone should keep track of their personal expenses, whether they’re a small business owner, a regular employee, or a professional trust fund baby. First off, there is so much you can write off on your taxes, even as an individual going to and from work every day. Second, tracking your personal expenses helps you plan, develop and maintain a budget – the kind of budget that will help you get organized, save money, and gain confidence. And guess what happens when you’re feeling organized, confident, and you’ve got money to spare? That’s right. Or, should I say, that’s (Mr. and Ms.) Right.

Long gone are the days of furiously scribbling your expenditures in a worn notebook, even entering them into a spreadsheet in Excel. Nowadays, you can be totally lazy while appearing to have your you-know-what together! With the advent of electronic receipts and user-friendly scanning services like those available through, it’s never been to appear organized and totally with it. Except with these awesome digital services that can be used to track and organize your personal expenses, you’ll actually be organized and totally with it.

Money can be a touchy subject between couples, no matter what stage of the relationship they’re in. When you first meet someone, you’re probably not going to discuss writing off mileage or expense reporting tips. (But if you do, PLEASE comment below – we’d love to feature your fantastic affair on our blog!) As things progress, the last thing you want to learn about Mr. and Ms. Perfect is that their personal expenses are a complete mess. Even worse, you certainly don’t want to be the one who’s a financial basket case! As nice as it would be to have your significant other double as a financial adviser, gather your receipts for you and whisk them away in the magic Shoeboxed envelope, the truth is that it’s better to do it yourself. You’ll feel better about every area of your life when that pesky money stuff is accounted for.

If you’re in the market for that special someone, or if you’re in a relationship and things have gotten tired, start scanning your receipts. You’ll feel confident, independent and financially savvy, and you’ll be able to enter into a romance knowing you don’t need the other person to fix your situation – you’ve already done that yourself. Besides, if you keep track of your personal expenses and put yourself on a manageable budget, you just might have some money left over to go on dates.

Would you date someone who was a mess financially?

Do both people need to keep track of their personal finances, or is one organized partner enough?